John, you are not forgotten

"The trauma survivor is silenced three times; firstly by their family, secondly by society and thirdly by bio-psychiatry. Wouldn't this make you angry?"

About This Blog

I wanted to create something beautiful for a passionate and soulful man who opened my eyes and my heart... because I wanted to celebrate our love with the world... a love so strong, a love denied, a bond that has survived the unspeakable; labelling, drugging and incarcerating. John reawakened my soul. I am gathering love for him. I no longer wish to be afraid of the trauma truth. I long to speak the poetry of my heart. This blog gives me and John's family and friends a voice in a legal system and a society that has taken our voice away and given exclusive rights and total control over John and his future to psychiatry. We live in an unenlightened world which translates "emotional distress" into "mental disorder". It's time to celebrate diversity and the normality of madness; visions and voices, fragility, sensitivity, passion, overwhelm, the language of the soul, the symbols of the soul and the mythic and metaphorical gifts from the soul. Each of our own unique and creative responses to trauma deserve to be honoured.


"Your heart has grown heavy with loss;
And though this loss has wounded others too,
No one knows what has been taken from you
when the silence of absence deepens."

John O'Donohue

Free John

Free John
Five Long Years

Sunday, June 13, 2010

'Musings on my Mind' by Grainne for John

Life battered you, so you fought back

You had too much to carry too young

When I love you, I am gardening my soul

If it takes a community to raise a child then it stands to reason that it takes a community to save a life

Your anger is a valid response to forced treatment

If I knew then what I know now, I would never have allowed you step in the door of Carraig Mor

The hurt and despair in your eyes at your "treatment"... through all, you have remained dignified

Your spirit cannot be broken

Fear can lead to resistance but resisting labelling and drugging is the first step to recovery. Non-compliance is a brave act

It appears that non-compliance with the mental health dictate is a crime in our land! Surely our minds are free?

The response we get to our distress effects our outcome; knowledge is power and many are disempowered through being fed ignorance

Those who need the most get the least

You transform pain and suffering into something beautiful

If you let go of your pain, you have to release your brother and face the pain of loss

And that loss and hurt is unfathomable, deeper than the dark blue sea

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